I told him, “We create suffering when we compare what is to our vision of what else it could be.”
I realized I needed to hear that myself.
So grateful on this day for the reflective mirror of relationships and the journey of the Soul.
There’s so much I want to say. Â So much I could say about friendship, and belonging, and how care (or the absence of it) feels deep in the center of my being. Â About feeling dehumanized so often. Â Objectified. Â Plunked into the fantasies and projections of men who said they loved me but didn’t show me…
A Blessing: May the fruits of summer…
I adore this woman so much. She is my current elder that I listen to and learn from as I work on my own elderhood. While it’s true that everything she says are things I practice and know, it’s wonderful to have the affirmation. I have often ignored hateful behavior in favor of “seeing the…
“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.” — Abraham Maslow Today, in the United States of America, we call this the end of a year. In my framework of existence, this is quite arbitrary so I…
liminal woman peering into unseen spaces (swimming) stripping bare hidden agendas (treasure in truth) delighting in the scent of autumn and violent rain crashing against (everything) stirring love and spice into her soup (and life itself) greeting the light embracing the darkness (like a lover) liminal woman seeing only circles smiling at the boxes (illusory)
“Wanna’ please; wanna’ keep; wanna’ treat your woman right? Not just dough, but a show, that you know she’s worth your time You will lose, if you choose, to refuse to put her first She will if she can find a man who knows her worth! ‘Cause a real man knows a real woman when…