I want to be alive with you
This piece says everything about what I want (and have) in community. In my relationships. In my work. And what I offer folx.
After a couple of years of strange relationship dynamics, what I know for sure is I have some really loyal and dear folx in my life and I’m so grateful.
And especially I have a spectacular relationship with myself. I like being my own soul mate. In 2019, I left behind relationships steeped in gender roles the way I left behind gender essentialism in 2018.
I have so much more to say about how much pain binary/nuclear family/heteronormative BS has hurt me in my life. But for now, I just want to celebrate being alive. With you.